So you’re wondering how to get your ex boyfriend back? If you’re serious about reuniting and reviving the romance with your man, read on…
Getting your ex back is largely about understanding human psychology and using the past to your advantage. The first step is to break all ties with your ex. Maintain no contact whatsoever. Treat this as a timeout.
Use this timeout to figure out what went wrong between the two of you and work on your weaknesses. It’s a good time for some introspection and analysis. While you’re busy doing this, human nature will take over and your ex will start wondering about you. He’ll be curious to know what you’re doing these days and might get in touch with you.
If and when your ex does call, don’t reveal much. Make small talk and keep the conversation short by saying you’ve got to run! Let his curiosity grow.
Look back and see what attracted him to you. Did you change along the way? Cultivate that trait your ex liked about you. Use your familiarity with your ex’s character to your advantage. After all, you must be knowing what ticks him off and what turns him on.
Pay attention to your appearance. Don’t let go by indulging in comfort eating. Look good so you can feel good.
If you meet your ex somewhere, carefully listen to what he says, his tone and choice of words. Don’t show any hurt or sadness. And don’t let him know how much you’re missing him or he’ll think he has the upper hand over you and can get you back by snapping his fingers! You need to put yourself in control of the situation and not the other way round.
Remember one thing – men don’t like women running after them. They value you more when they’ve do the chasing! By keeping away from your ex you’ll send a loud and clear message that you’re doing absolutely fine without him. And if he thinks you’re moving on, that might bother him. You know, how could you get over him so quickly!
If you do win your ex boyfriend back, make sure to talk things out and work on what went wrong. Brushing the problem under the carpet won’t help. You need to face it head on as a couple with as much patience and love as possible. Have faith that you’ll come out trumps as a team. Good luck!